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Matthew Chapter Eighteen

By Richard Gunther

  

18:1-5    Types of greatness

 

   While Peter was sorting out the tax question, the other disciples were discussing the kingdom of God. As they saw it, there was a time coming when they would all be given special positions in that kingdom, perhaps on the line of generals, governors and mayors. Eventually the discussion spilled over, and they brought the matter to Jesus.

 

   "Who amongst us will be given the highest position in your kingdom?" they asked.

 

   Jesus didn't answer them right away. Instead, he looked around until he saw a child (Greek = paidurion = a lad or lass, a little boy or girl), then he walked over to the child, picked her up, and carried her back to where the disciples were sitting. He stood the child in front of them.

 

   "This child represents the greatest in my kingdom" said Jesus, "She knows she is but a child, she is not filled with thoughts of self-promotion, and she accepts her place in the world. This is how the people of my kingdom ought to be too.

 

   "You disciples must change your thinking! Begin with repentance, then follow through by changing your worldly thinking until it conforms with God's way of looking at things." (1Sam.16:7)

 

   "The standards and values in God's kingdom are exactly the opposite of those in the world. Instead of trying to climb the social ladder, you must go the other way, and do the humblest of tasks, which attract little or no attention. See this child? She helps her mother and father with everyday jobs round the house. She doesn't try to run for mayor, or aim at being the next president! She is content with her place in the home. You must be content too, and do whatever God gives you to do - and if promotion comes, do that with the same humble attitude.

 

   "Now, if you are really my disciples, you will be just like this little child, and when people receive you, and welcome you, it will be the same as if they are welcoming me. Wherever you go, I will go. Whatever you do or say, it will be like me doing and saying it."

 

   (Jesus talked about people "humbling themselves" but really, only Jesus ever "humbled Himself" - Philippians 2:7,8. We can only follow the pattern.

 

   Also note, the Church is here portrayed as a humble body of believers, not a power-seeking mega-organisation with his hands into political, military and international control.)

 

 

18:6-9   Attacks against Christians

 

   Beginning with the example of a little child, Jesus transferred the principle of humility and contentment found in that child to the heart of a true Christian. Now he warned against those who try to destroy believers.

 

   "Anyone" said Jesus, "Who deliberately tries to hurt, or deceive, or destroy a Christian is due for a terrible punishment! God will not allow these attacks against his children to go unpunished.

 

   "But, unfortunately, these attacks will come, and many Christians will fall, brought down by the enticements, and trials, and mockery thrown at them.

 

  "Most of these attacks against my followers will come from the world, because Satan controls the world, and he hates me. I'd like to tie him to a rock and drop him in the sea, along with all his subjects, but that will not be necessary because his day is coming.

 

   "I said 'most' of these attacks, because there is another, less obvious area from which enticements to sin will come. I am speaking of your own selves.

 

   "You all have weaknesses, and sinful failings. Some of you will have the 'wandering eye' - always watching the ladies. Some of you will have secret longings, or unfulfilled dreams, which will take your mind off the job. Some of you will have strong desires for things which are not part of the kingdom plan . . .I could get specific but I'll spare you the embarrassment.

 

   "The best thing to do, when these self-centred enticements come along, is to cut them out of your life. Remove them like a surgeon removes an arm or a leg. Amputate the lust, or greed, or pride, or whatever causes you to wander from the Christian life.

 

   "Think of it this way : you have a choice. You can either go through life living the full Christian life, or you can hobble through, with whatever doesn't belong to it dragging along behind.

 

   "And be warned! There are many would-be Christians who refuse to give up some worldly pleasure, rather than repent and come into God's kingdom. They keep their pleasure, but they go to hell."

 

 

18:10-14   The lost sheep

 

   Referring yet again to the child, Jesus taught another aspect of Christianity, this time showing the care and attention which God the Father, and the Son, and the angels - Heb.1:14, all show towards a Christian.

 

   (Some Bibles say that little ones have "their angels". Their angels = their servants. There is no basis for the idea that every child has its own personal guardian angel.)

 

   "It is not my will" said Jesus, "That anyone should be missing from the kingdom of God. I want everyone to be there!"

 

   "Let me tell you a story to illustrate what I mean. Suppose there was a farmer, who had 100 sheep. One day, when he was counting them into the sheepfold, he noticed that one was missing. Immediately he sets off, into the mountains, and hunts for that wandering sheep until he finds it.

 

   "That is how God, the Great Shepherd feels about Christians ("little ones") who wander away from the kingdom. Christians who begin to give up their faith, or who fall to temptation, or who slip back into worldliness, are like wandering sheep, and God will do everything in his power to bring them back to himself."

 

 

18:15-20   Keeping Christian fellowship healthy

 

   "So here are some rules, which will help you to stay strong Christians" said Jesus, "And help to prevent you from becoming wandering sheep.

 

   "There are two main rules : discipline and forgiveness.

 

   "The first rule works this way. If you have a situation where two Christians fall out because one of them does or says something unacceptable, the offended party must go and try to discuss the problem with the offender. This is the offended Christian's responsibility. The matter should be handled privately between the two parties, and an attempt must be made to set things right. There must be no general discussion, or gossip, about the matter.

 

   "If this fails, the second step is to bring other Christians into the matter. Let them go with the offended party and discuss whatever was said or done, in the hope that the offender will admit guilt and ask for forgiveness. (Deut.19:15) As the Law of God says, "Let everything be backed up by several credible testimonies."

 

   "The aim of all these procedures is to gain the offender back into the fellowship. Do your utmost to keep the offending member from going away. Remember the lost sheep? The shepherd searched all night for that one - so you must try as hard as you can to keep your Christian fellowship together.

 

   "But sometimes all your efforts will fail. The offender will part company, with anger, or pride, or resentment. At this stage you are not to treat them with any less love than any other unsaved person. They must not be permitted to take part in your Christian fellowship, but they must not be pushed away from normal Christian compassion and care.

 

   (Unfortunately today the worldly court system is often better than the Christian assembly at supporting a charge with clear supporting testimony (rather than gossip). Also Christians often forget the command that they are not to take fellow Christians to a civil court - 1Cor.6:1-8 - to sort out their disputes, when it is to the local Christian assembly that they should go.)

 

   "People who do not live as true believers, must not be treated as true believers. (There are many inconsistent, worldly Christians - and they are 'living dangerously', because they have entered the domain of Satan - 1Cor.5:5. Believers should treat such people with courtesy, but not condone the sin, or have fellowship with them. On the other hand, the moment repentance is seen, immediate re-fellowship should be offered.)

 

   Jesus now showed the way the Church could exercise authority in this matter.

 

   "If a Christian fellowship prayerfully decides to discipline a fellow Christian, God will acknowledge their decision, and the same goes for any prayerful decision to release a fellow Christian from discipline.

 

   "Even if it is a matter of only two or three Christians who do this. A Christian fellowship does not have to be huge to be effective. Two believers is enough. God will honour, and act on behalf of only two Christians, if they are single-minded about their decisions."

 

   (Interestingly, it was believed by the Jews that "Wherever two are assembled to study the Law, the Shekinah is with them" - and here is Jesus saying that wherever two, or three, are gathered in His name, He is with them.)

 

   Prayer to get things done must be made with certain provisions :

 

1. In conformity to God's revealed will - 1John 5:14,15

 

2. In confident faith - James 1:6-8

 

3. In sincerity - Heb. 10:22 on.)

 

 

18:21-35   The unforgiving servant

 

   Peter had been thinking about this matter of forgiveness, and it bothered him. He didn't like the idea of having to go through the stages of reconciling a fellow Christian over and over again. Surely, he thought, there must be a cut-off point, when the offending Christian is told to go away?

 

   "Lord" said peter, "How many times should I forgive someone? Seven times?"

 

   "No" said Jesus, "The number is unlimited! This is exactly how God works. He forgives every sinner every time, for their entire life!

 

   "Let me illustrate this with a story. There was a certain king who decided to call in all the people who owed him money, and get them to pay up. For a while all went well, and the money was pouring in, but then along came a man who owed the king ten million dollars! The king demanded that the man pay, but of course he could not.

 

   "Then I will sell your wife and children" said the king, "And you shall spend the rest of your life as a slave!"

 

   "Please! No!" cried the poor man, falling down in tears, "Give me a little more time and I will pay you the money!"

 

   The king felt sorry for him, and, instead of agreeing with the terms he said : "I have decided to forgive you the entire debt!"

 

   Gratefully the man left the king's court-room and went home, but his gratitude soon faded, being replaced with greed. He saw one of his servants, who owed him a few dollars and he rushed up to him. Grabbing the man by the neck he started to throttle him.

 

   "Pay up!" he yelled.

 

   The servant dropped to the ground.

 

   "I'm sorry" he said, "I have no money at the moment, but if you give me a little time, I will repay what I owe!"

 

   "No way!" said the man, "You're off to prison, and you can stay there till you, or someone else, repays your debt!"

 

   The other servants saw all this, and they were outraged by the injustice. They sent word to the king, asking for some redress and when he heard about what had happened he was furious!

 

   "Get that scoundrel here!" he shouted.

 

   Soon the man was standing, trembling, in front of the king.

 

   "I've never seen such wickedness!" said the king, "You came in here begging for mercy, and I forgave you your debt of ten million dollars . . . and then you went out and threw a man into prison because of a handful of small change! You pathetic little worm! You deserve to die, but I'm sending you to the dungeon instead. I think a little torture might help to drive some sense into that head of yours - and you can stay there till your debt is paid!"

 

   Jesus waited for the impact of the story to sink in, then he said :

 

   "God is your King. When you came to him for forgiveness, you had a debt so large you would never have paid it, yet when you asked for mercy, God forgave you the entire debt. Now, what happens when your fellow Christian asks for forgiveness? Do you refuse? If you do, you will feel the chastening of a bad conscience for the rest of your life."

 

   There are three stages to forgiveness :

 

1. When wronged, we should forgive "from our hearts" right away - Eph.4:32 . This frees us from a bitter or resentful spirit.

 

2.  We cannot verbally or outwardly forgive someone until they ask for forgiveness - Luke 17:3. Saying to an unrepentant person that you forgive them is foolish.

 

3. As soon as we are asked to forgive, we are obligated to do so -Luke 17:4.

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